You want to know one of the biggest secrets to my game?
Here it is…
I get hot girls to either approach me, or give me a super obvious approach invitation (aka a big sign they want me to approach them) before I even say a word.
I’m able to start conversations with girls (and have them start conversations with me) almost effortlessly.
So, how do I do it – and more importantly, how can YOU do the same?
In today’s video, I show you how. Check it out below:
Here’s the TL;DW:
The two ways girls will “approach” you
– She’ll actually come up and say hi, which is great
– She’ll give you an “approach invitation” which means she’ll make it obvious that she wants you to talk to her (by doing things like checking you out, standing next to you, etc). This is more common, because it allows her to avoid social rejection. Still these are great because when you notice these invitations and approach, she’ll be warm from the start.
Here are 7 tips to get more of these:
1. Increase your awareness – to get hot girls to approach you, you first need to know where they are and be aware of them. Keep your head up when walking. At bars and clubs, don’t rapidly scan the room but calmly glance and take in your surroundings.
2. Position yourself in high traffic places – stand in the line of sight of hot girls. This could be by the bar or by the dancefloor. Girls can’t approach you if they can’t see you.
3. Walk like a boss – anytime you walk into a venue, walk in like you own the room. Walk slowly, take up space, and keep your head up, with a slight smirk.
4. Dress to impress – don’t leave the house looking like a scrub. You never know when you’ll come across a beautiful girl.
5. Take the gym seriously – this will help you build more muscle, fill out your clothes, and look more masculine. Don’t just hit the gym and half-ass it. Focus on compound exercises as these help you build muscle mass faster.
6. Be a social guy – Talk to different groups of people, guys and girls. When she sees you’re a social guy, she’ll be more likely to approach you.
7. Have a wing girl – Invite your girlfriends out. Can still be with your homies, but having a few girls sprinkled in your group makes you seem more approachable to other girls, and also gives you social proof
Doing all of these things will help you get approached more often, and get you A LOT more approach invitations, which will make it super easy for you to start conversations.